Translated by Rabbi Avraham Greenbaum, The Essential Rabbi Nachman (Azamra Institute):
It is a great mitzvah to be happy always!
Make every effort to maintain a happy, positive outlook at all
times. It is a natural human tendency to become discouraged and depressed
because of the hardships of life: everyone has their full share of suffering.
That is why you must force yourself to be happy at all times. Use every
possible way to bring yourself to joy, even by joking or acting a little crazy!
Likutey Moharan II, 24
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If you are happy, the whole world benefits .
Rabbi Noson of Tiveria, Netiv Tzaddik 71
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A
happy front
Even if you are upset and unhappy, you can at least put on a happy
front. At first you may not feel genuinely happy in your heart. Even so, if youact happy
you will eventually attain true happiness and joy.
Sichot HaRan #74
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Good
humor
Rabbi Nachman once observed: Having a sense of humor is good on
three conditions:
1. You do not insult others. 2. You are not vulgar. 3. You do not
present yourself in a good light to the detriment of others.
Siach Sarfey Kodesh 1-13
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Finding
the good points
You must search for the good in yourself.
When you start looking deep within yourself, you may think there
is no good in you at all. You may feel you are full of evil: a negative voice
inside you may try to drive you into depression. But you must not allow
yourself to fall into depression. Search until you find some little good in
you. For how could it be that you never did anything good in your whole life?
When you start to examine the good you have done, you may see many
flaws. Maybe you did what you did for the wrong reasons and with the wrong
attitude. Even so, how could it be that your mitzvah or good deed contains no
good at all? It must contain some element of good.
You must search and search until you find some good point within
you to give you new life and happiness. When you discover the good that is
still inside you, you literally swing the scales from guilt to merit. This will
enable you to return to God. The good you find inside you will give you new
life and bring joy to your soul.
Having found one good point, you must continue searching until you
find another. Even if you think this good point is also full of flaws, you must
still search for some good in it. In the same way, you must continue finding
more and more good points.
This is how songs are made! In essence, music is made by sifting
the good from the bad. The musician has to find the “good spirit”—the good air—and
reject the bad. A musical instrument is a vessel containing air. The musician
produces the sounds by causing the air to vibrate. His task is to move his
hands on the instrument in such a way as to produce good spirit, “good
vibrations,” while avoiding the “bad vibrations”—the dissonant winds of gloom
and depression.
When a person refuses to allow himself to fall into despair but
instead vitalizes himself by seeking out and gathering together his positive
points, this produces melodies, and he can then pray, sing and give thanks to
God.
When a person recognizes the wrong he has done and how grossly
materialistic and impure he is, he can become so depressed that he is
completely incapable of praying. He simply cannot open his mouth to God. This
is because of the deep sorrow and heaviness that overcome him when he sees his
overwhelming distance from God.
But finding your good points can give you new life. Even if you
know you have done wrong and caused damage and that you are far from God, you
must search until you find the good that is still inside you. This will give
you new life and make you truly happy. You are certainly entitled to feel the
greatest joy over every good point you find in yourself, because each good
point comes from the holy soul within you. The new life and joy you will gain
from this path will enable you to pray, sing and give thanks to God.
Likutey Moharan I, 282
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True
humility
A person should never let his own smallness, insignificance and
humility cover up his true greatness. For sometimes a person downgrades himself
to excess and forgets that he still has many amazing attributes.
Siach Sarfey Kodesh 1-34
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A
settled mind
The main reason why people are far from God is because their minds
are not settled and they do not pause to consider the purpose of their
existence. But when a person is happy, his mind becomes settled and he is able
to understand things clearly.
Someone who is anxious and depressed finds it impossible to direct
his thoughts where he wants. It is hard for him to calm and settle his mind.
Only when a person is happy can he direct his thoughts wherever he wants and
settle his mind.
Joy is the world of freedom—“for you shall go out with joy ”
(Isaiah 55:12). Through joy we become free and leave our exile. When a person
maintains a happy, joyous attitude, his mind and thoughts become free and he is
no longer in exile. He can then direct his thoughts as he wants and settle his
mind so as to focus on his goal and draw close to God.
Likutey Moharan II, 10
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Join
the dance
Sometimes a group of people happily dancing together take hold of
someone who is standing miserable and depressed on the outside. They pull him
into the dance circle despite himself, forcing him to rejoice with them.
Similarly, when a person is happy, his pain and sadness may move
to the sidelines . But a higher level is to pursue the sadness itself and “pull
it into the dance circle,” turning it into joy.
If you truly set your mind to it, you will find that even amidst
your worst troubles and suffering there is always a way you can turn all your
sadness into joy. True joy is when you forcibly transform your very sadness and
depression into happiness.
Likutey Moharan II, 23
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The
difference between broken-heartedness and depression
Having a broken heart and being depressed are two quite different
things.
Depression is rooted in the unholy “other side” and God hates it.
But being brokenhearted and contrite over one’s sins and shortcomings is very
dear and precious to God.
It would be very good to be brokenhearted all day. But this could
easily throw most people into gloom and depression. You should therefore set
aside some time each day for heartbreak. Seclude yourself with God for a given
time and break your heart with regret over your sins. Then be happy for the
rest of the day.
Sichot HaRan #41
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Being gloomy and depressed is like being angry with God for not
satisfying one’s desires. But someone with a broken heart is like a small child
pleading with his father or crying out and complaining to him for being
distant.
Sichot HaRan #42
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After heartbreak comes joy. Being happy later on is a true sign of
having a broken heart.
Sichot HaRan #45
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Hold
onto the good times
You should always try to be happy and serve God with joy, and even
if you sometimes fall short of your level, you can still encourage yourself by
thinking of earlier times when you did have a taste of the light.
A number of blind people can all take hold of one sighted person
and follow him trustingly. A blind man trusts his stick and follows it even
though he sees nothing. How much more should you follow your own self - because
the light did shine on you previously, arousing and inspiring you to serve God.
Maybe you feel you have fallen and that your eyes and heart are
closed. Even so, you should still hold onto those earlier days. Just as you
were aroused and encouraged to serve God then, strengthen yourself now by
following the sense of arousal you felt then. God will soon help you and His
light will shine on you again.
Likutey Moharan I, 222
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